RSE3003: Redundant outbound enabler connection

Hi All

I have configured a relay and required RSOE.

in my Relay log I am getting

I. 2013-09-17 06:48:51. <3192.2480.F1B0Up>
Authenticating up channel first time connection

I. 2013-09-17 06:48:51. <3192.2480.F1B0Up> Using RSOE protocol version 5

I. 2013-09-17 06:48:51. <3192.2480.F1B0Up> Engaging...

E. 2013-09-17 06:48:51. <3192.2480.F1B0Up> RSE3003: Redundant outbound
enabler connection for backend server '89ps' in backend farm 'mdm.ps' was
ignored

I. 2013-09-17 06:48:51. <3192.2480.F1B0Up> 4 bytes
RS_ERR_AUTHENTICATION()

I. 2013-09-17 06:48:51. <3192.2480.F1B0Up> Going to Close SHM_USE

I have checked and all recyling is disabled in IIS but I cannot get rid of this and cannot enroll any devices

please help